So here's our chubby man doing a few of his new favorite things right now...watching baby einstein and chewing on as many fingers as he can possibly fit into his mouth (and those are some chubby fingers). He's also been testing out the new Bumbo we just got him and he's become quite a fan. As you can see from this other pic, he wasn't too excited at first, which may be because his chubby legs get stuck every time we try to take him out.
Speaking of new things for Kaden, I made a purchase that may not be necessary but I had a freak out moment. I got a flat tire, probably from hitting a curb pretty hard, so I went to get it replaced and sat by some lady from here. She asked about Kaden and showed me a picture of her niece that just died of SIDS last month at only 4 months of age. She said there have been 10 cases in the last few months in this area and the average is 1-2 per year so they are launching an investigation to see if there are similar factors involved. Anyway, she told me that the most important thing any new mom should invest in is a SIDS monitor, which I didn't even know existed. And, of course, I came home and ordered one. At least I'll have piece of mind after hearing that story. I couldn't think of anything worse happening as Kaden has become the center of our universe so I think it's a good investment.
I thought I'd mention this story that happened last week. We get some of the same questions about his race out here and people often thinks he is polynesian. But this 3 year old girl at church sure got it right last week and I thought it was kind of funny. She was sitting in front of us on her dads lap facing backwards looking at us. I was holding Kaden and feeding him a bottle. Pretty loudly, she let her dad know what was going on and said, "Dad...that lady is feeding that black baby!", like there was something just not right about this picture. I do often worry for Kaden as he gets older and clearly understands he is not the same race as his parents. I'm constantly looking for information on transracial families and am trying to gear up for these types of incidents when Kaden is old enough to understand that we have a different situation then most. Anyway, we sure love him and will do our best!